Hmm... I've been trying to stay away from the board but now you're just baiting me
Believe it or not although this thread makes me sound like an arrogant b!tch it is actually about me realising something about his POV. If as the Passion Trap suggests the behaviours I have seen from him which I have found to be unattractive are as a result of him feeling one-down and anxious then my reaction to that is NOT just to say "hey look I married a loser", my reaction is to behave in ways designed to let him feel less anxious and more one-up.
mu
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
