Oh! so that explains it.

[Lillieperl]

PS: Blackfoot I just realised a great thing for a guy to say when W says "how do I look" or "does this make me look fat" - just eye her up and down and say 'Well you won't put me to shame" and wink.

How about: "Well, *I* wouldn't kick you out of bed," with a kiss and a pat.