The other fault I see in CeMar is his refusal to project a strong attractive image to his wife, Blackfoot’s alpha male image. IMO, there are two levels to the alpha male. The lower level is more power based - setting boundaries and enacting consequences. The higher level can come into play after her other person learns to respect those boundaries. The alpha male can show his compassionate side. I wonder if CeMar has ever established his lower level first?
I think its just the opposite cobra. His wife will have sex whenever he wants. Cemar has the strength, boundaries, anger, whateever part down. I dont think he has the compassion, empathy or understanding to see that a female is receptive. Whenever he talks about GAL, he mentiones it done so as to ELICIT a reaction, instead of done for himself with passion and direction. just postulating, but Any other romantic gestures he may make are done in a approval seeking fasion rather then a caring thoughtful ' I notice what you need, and was thinking of you' manner.
Feel free to chime in cemar. No disrespect meant in talking about you, but if nothing else maybe the scenario rings true for some other.
