You can find the Passion Trap on Amazon. And I don't think that lack of sex is a physical problem vs. an emotional problem. Honestly, in 9 out of 10 cases, I'd say it is reversed, in my non-medical professional opinion.
Hap:
Guilt. Ah. Lovely word.
Quote: And he has to GAL. He has to get away from his sense that "everything I do I do for you", because that is what is making him miserable and me guilty.
Yes. My xH was exactly like this. EXACTLY. And when he just asked for a LITTLE BIT in return... I couldn't give it... bad, bad, bad, bad, Corri. Poor, poor, poor xH.
No, you cannot fix your H. Yes, lose the guilt. Any way you can. The one thing about this power game, though, is it is covert, and they come at you with it cloaked in good intentions. (I'm only thinking of YOUR happiness, and look at what I get in return...) That takes a pretty thick layer of skin to work through... and there are days when you think your head is absolutely going to SPIN OFF YOUR NECK because you get so tired of doom, gloom and woe is me. Oh, jesus... I'm having flashbacks here... hang on....
Oh, and yes, please, please, please start being yourself again. Your children need to see her. You GO girl!!!
