Still trying to find this book. Not at Barnes and Noble or the local library. Not sure I agree with everything people have said about it. They talk about GALing for the one down. Been there, done that, it does not work. If I went for 6 months without ever initiating ANY kind of sex or touch, I will STILL be right where I am. Not sure that this book takes into account that much of the passion problem is caused by physical problems and not emotional issues.