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I truly believe that once ONE person in the R truly understands the pure destructiveness of power plays, or competing, within an R and STOPS doing it... the R can and WILL change



Change? Yes. H has done some things I find touching and those things are softening my gruffness. This gives me some energy to try again. The business that your "love" is a vessel/account and you fill and withdrawl from it regularly and the absolute emptiness of the sitch can possibly be fixed one sided.

Look at your buckets. 'There's a whole in your bucket 'Lil Liza, Lil Liza Jane.' Make sure you stay aware of incoming so that you can recieve the jestures. Some just don't get em.

Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay