She says she is not in a R w/ the other man. They are just friends w/ benefits. She says over and over that she is not ready for a relationship and that they scare her.

I'm pretty sure that her family would alienate her if she decided to be with this man. But, then again who knows? He might have told her that he can't continue sexual relations until she is D. I don't see her getting married to him soon....but stranger things have happened.

She did tell me about 4 weeks ago that he is head over heels for her. I'm thinking it's the other way around. She loves to be wanted.

M-35 going on 15
D-8
S- 3 yrs
ex-CL(w)- 30

D over one year

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