The double is really hard, J.

Yes, I have found all of these threads to be of help. When things get wacky. I simply go over to the MLC Party Thread btw... they "validate" sometimes.

I feel better about myself when I can be of help to someone else as that is my nature and that is why I went to Law School. So.. yes that helps too.

Not everyone needs to divorce if they have problems.. and I also feel for the kids in these R's ( I have three btw).

Tis far better to find yourself no matter what btw ! That is my motto.

Tom