You sound good tonight...a sense of humor. Btw, that is the number one reason why women choose a man. Second, is personality and looks are third.
Hey don't knock David Crosby, he doesn't look like Richard Gere, but I think he has a lot of handsome features.
If you cut your hair, that's fine. My point was basically to keep up the hygiene and cleanliness. I really didn't mean for anyone to look exactly like they did when they were dating. Heck, without sounding vain - I look and feel better than when I dated my H. In fact, I feel that whole sitch that I had, was something that I needed to go through before I could "start again".
Now, about the legs...you had better be a professional swimmer, inorder to carry that off. Otherwise, people might interpret that you also work as a Drag Queen...