So true...but I was already ready...in my business I have to keep up my appearance. It was just a suggestion to the others.
So glad you "finally got it". I had to get away from the computer last night b/c you were so far out in left field, no, correction, out of the ball park - I had to walk away. You were making me out to be a psycho...lol, lol.
You sound good tonight...a sense of humor. Btw, that is the number one reason why women choose a man. Second, is personality and looks are third.
Hey don't knock David Crosby, he doesn't look like Richard Gere, but I think he has a lot of handsome features.
If you cut your hair, that's fine. My point was basically to keep up the hygiene and cleanliness. I really didn't mean for anyone to look exactly like they did when they were dating. Heck, without sounding vain - I look and feel better than when I dated my H. In fact, I feel that whole sitch that I had, was something that I needed to go through before I could "start again".
Now, about the legs...you had better be a professional swimmer, inorder to carry that off. Otherwise, people might interpret that you also work as a Drag Queen...
Hey there! I can't see that yopu did anything wrong. However, do lay off the compliments that you give her.
She feels weird b/c you got a tan and you lost weight. It tends to throw the cheater off balance.
You see, we don't want our private world to mesh with our M. We need to keep it seperated - when we see our S continue with their life, we get curious. Why are they changing? We don't like the S to change. It takes the mystic and secrecy out of the A. Two key components of an A.
Continue on with the focus of you and the kids only. Do things that will make you feel good about you.
When the cheater sees that you're not going crazy, crying or losing it...we wonder.
When you need to get crazy, cry, etc., do it w/o her seeing that.
You sound a lot better...don't worry that you may not fly together. This will give you more time to think.
When the papers come, don't open them up. Let them sit there until she comes and gets them.
Hi ! It appears the distance around the MB may be getting shorter (?) but that is hard to say. I have switched postions and now will keep myself in the infield btw . I hope you had a good day today !
Yeah...I had a good day. Things are looking and staying up all the time. How was your day...btw, why were you "here" in the first place. What was your sitch about?
No 1012006, I dont think you are being nosy. I guess you could sort of piece it together with my posts but the long and the short of it is I found this site looking for places to assist in dealing with W's mental health issues ( not much out there for these situations) and I relate to many of the same things that others experience here. In fact, I probably go through an entire R in a week or so.. atleast some weeks !
Number Lady, I just wanted to appologize for what I said to you a few days ago. I was having a really bad day and did not mean to take it out on you. I know you were just trying to help me. Again I am sorry.
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Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
My bad, 12102006 !
