LBS...STOP

[Tiara Boy (CM)]

1. Men try to hide their emotions
2. Generally, women don't - they can't hide it
6. Women, do this to purge themselves of the pain, so
they are more dramatic about it; but they also
heal alot more quickly b/c of it

I have agreed with everything you have said. I agree with this except in my situation. As I've stated, my W disassociates her feelings. She always has. She is a recovering methamphetamine user and they have a tendency to do this. You never see her cry, even before this sitch. She bottles up her feelings and won't release them. Her wanting to D is a result of her "running" from her emotions. She has even said this.

I on the other hand, am an emotional guy. I have learned not to be afraid to "blubber". It has been harder for me during this sitch for some reason, but I am trying to "feel" more. It is a release for me as it should be. I have been a so called tail chaser...but I'm getting better. AT and GH have helped me with this as well as many, many others on this board.

Thanks for everything you post!