I have seen you popping up here and there, usually hitting nails on their heads and this thread is no different. Wonderful, simply wonderful.
There are too many well-meaning people here talking the talk but failing where it counts the most, and that's getting up the nerve, courage and strength to walk.
So much pain, so much anger and so little action to do something about it.
It's not mean to point that out. It's probably the most compassionate, loving thing anyone here can do for the rest.