Even though you all are still married in the eyes of the church, it's still a man-made canon law. What's important is that he's in a legal marriage, which he is.
Yes, it's easy to say "move on" because we've either been there, done that or we're going through it now. When I initially read your thread, I thought you all had been divorced 5 months. Then I re-read, and it's been 5 years !
Are you staying busy? Do you have other girlfriends to socialize with?
alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07
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