and now for an opinion/clarification post: My DB coach told me I was "intellectualizing" my reactions and needed to show some more emotion/pain to my partner. But I understand the premise of not looking like a snot nosed wimp to the spouse. (Who wants to come back to that?) And no R talk is also essential. Hmmmmmm....how exactly might I convey that emotion/pain? No tears, no talk, I feel kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. Opinions?
And honest to god what DO you say to "I'm going out and will be out all night"?
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
