Well, what happened next? You burst into tears and that was the end of the conversation?

I mean, he started the convo, he obviously was trying to tell you something...why didn't you let him finish? Are you unconsciously discouraging him from finishing his thought because you think you can't handle the answer? Or that you already know the answer?

I say let him speak. Now that the moment is over, you will have to approach him and say, Hey you were going to tell me what's up with you not showing up on Wednesdays and I had a little freakout and started crying--what were you going to say?

He'll reply that he was going to say nothing other than he was aware he was letting you down but that will be your opportunity to force him to come up with somethin different. Ask him to think about it and let you know why he thinks he's testing you.

He's so frigging rebellious that he will stop doing something that he *likes* just to prove that he can. Dumba$$.

Anyway, this is a bump on the road. You two are doing well; keep it up.

Love,
H.