Here are my simple thoughts. If you have no children and have been married for a short time, then send this man on his confused way and find another adorable human being who will care for you and love you. I took my wife back after she left for another and it is hell on earth. I've changed, been more connected, supportive, etc., but it hasn't mattered abit. The pathology that they had that caused them to look at another doesn't change. They either want to be with you, or they don't. That's the way I look at it.
