The thing that I think makes it a little more difficult for attys in this sitch is that we do want a quick fix. Why not ? That is what we do for a living. We solve or attempt to solve the problems (whether they be emotional, financial, ethical, moral etc...) of others.

So why not our own the same way ? Unfortunately it does not work like that as we have no magic wand to waive for ourselves.

This also makes it harder for us to detach from the S. We tend to immediately confront things head on with often poor initial results. Hang in there LG !

Tom