I just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on how i should act when H comes to stay for the week (he has 1 week off work for paternity leave) when the baby is born. H says he will be at my beck and call if i want him to. Do i act as if we are a happy little family or that he is just a friend that has come to help out? I know i will be desparate for a hug or any affection -so, should i initiate anything or act as if i really am ok with us being over. I am worried that i'm going to be an emotional wreck. The first weeks after giving birth are a real roller coaster of emotions at the best of times. So i am a bit scared that i will end up pouring my heart out to him and ruin my DB'ing chances.