Yes, the OP is a huge boulder to move off the pathway. Keep in mind that the OP is basically a cartoon figure! She is someone who your H has put all his romantic fantasies on to. She is so loving, so kind, such a good listener, blah blah blah. Let's face it what kind of person could she possibly be to start an A with a man who has a pregnant W? Looooser! I'm sure this angel is his "soulmate" and "they read each other so easily". It's so wonderful because he and she don't have to deal with this big bugaboo called "REALITY". So, be patient and watch the lovers implode as the real world starts to creep in. BABY = REAL WORLD. Just be as good a person as you know how to be, set some DB goals and go from there. Thank him when he's considerate, helpful and loving but, for now, consider it a gift and enjoy it as such. Remember that time is on your side and that most of these fairy tale romances burn themselves out at some point. Will you prevail? Only time will tell, use it to your advantage. Keep in touch! Hope this helped.