My W's OP was her best friend for the past few years. She likes to say the A "just happened, nobody planned it". My reply was "I guess aliens just sucked your brain out of your head and you had no choice but to cheat on me!" Sarcasm is one of my blessings/curses! You are right though, the OW, in my view, wants to keep my W needy and dependent because that keeps all the best cards in her hands. Yes, any responsible friend would say "go for help! get some meds" but NO she's going to help her through this all by her itty bitty self. Sad, sad, sad! My W found the mommy she's always wanted (she came from a pretty wacky family) and I just can't compete. So, enough of my tragic tale, how about you? How are you coping and taking care of you these days. Keep us all posted. Thanks again for caring, let me return the favour.
