Thanks for the encouragement, Unloved. We have two beautiful D's and we do still live together, W and I sleep in the same bed ...just one happy little family, except for one thing! Part of my sitch is my W is having an A with another woman. That adds a little spice to the drama, doesn't it. W refuses to call herself "gay" and says she doesn't know what she is and I believe her. Personally I believe she became very needy (athough I hate using that word) in the past few years due to feeling extremely overwhelmed by many responsibilities and her "friend" was there for her in ways I either wasn't or could not be. I did endless amounts of listening and taking care of day to day stuff for her but something was missing for her. It strikes me as an addiction, this EA she is in. W has found someone to handle her emotional side because she can't do it herself right now. I've been a good H but am also willing to own my part in what happened, I've actually always been very open to her complaints. Some I acted on some I did not. W is also a clinically depressed individual who refuses to get help. That makes it much harder because the OP has become her happy pill. So I do what I can to be loving and be the best H and dad I can be. That's maybe all any of us can really do. If it ends in a M breakup then I can honestly say I did my best. I hope you are doing well now and you keep us all updated on your sitch. You've got a challenging time ahead of you but with the proper PMA you can do it!
P.S. what you posted above really means alot to me. Thanks
