Well, my sitch...You asked for it! Three years ago W said "I'm not sure how I feel about you anymore", two years ago W said "I don't love you anymore" and 9 months ago she said "I've started a new R". I discovered DB at the "I don't love you anymore" stage. It really has kept me sane. I've GAL'd my heart out and have made amazing progress in that, I set some goals for our M and actually realized them BUT despite these "successes" I'm still feeling like I'm at square one again. I forgot that W doesn't have the same itinerary as I do! Damn, why can't they just do what we want The last month has been a real downer, as I started THINKING (stinkin' thinkin) and then the emotions started kicking in, you know "how much am I expected to tolerate blah blah blah"! Well, I'm climbing out of that emotional phase right now and looking more at fixing ME rather than the sitch. I have always found something to keep me going! You will too. If it isn't meant to be, then so be it. Thanks for asking.