Bottom line, Unloved,is you won't know until he makes real concrete moves to come back. So whether he is beginning or just feeling sorry for you, it doesn't really matter cuz you have to continue the plan you put into play either way. I have found that my W takes steps forward and back all the time. It's a long (and I mean long!) process. It's damn confusing and we can never really be sure what is going on in that other persons head, it's hard enough trying to keep straight what's in my own head. Right now, I would keep doing what you are doing and concentrate on that beautiful new life you are about to bring into this world. Focus on that excitement and share it with him. At the very least, you've got him making tea for you now!
