Quote: I'm also southern bred, wayyyy down south (like s.america)
Not me...I'm just Whistlin' Dixie
I don't know how I got on this but I'm not really complaining either. I see it more as an interesting problem that seems to have no solution.
I DO see a lot of progress. She is sweeter, more affectionate with me, but it seems to be an act since she will lay on the bed with me and kiss me playfully on the lips in between sentences (if I'm joking with her or whatever) and yet say she doesn't feel anything for me. Something about that makes no sense to me.
Every other aspect of our life is great. Truly. That's why this is so strange.
In situations like this I usually figure that if I can't find a solution to the problem, then I'm either looking in the wrong place, or there's more to the problem than I'm aware of.
It's almost like she knows something I don't, just a feeling I have, can't put my finger on it.
I don't mean to get all hocus pocus about this but back when she was cheating on me I used to have a lot of dreams about finding her in a hotel room with another man, or coming home from work and finding her having sex with another man in our living room (which she was doing!). Freaky.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
