To be honest, I think my W lived such a huge lie for so long that she's often on another planet, mentally. Not that she's nuts...but I think her perspective is much different now, much healthier, but at the same time, seeing and feeling the full impact of what she did and who she did it with, and seeing the OM more clearly now that some things have come out about him and I've done a fairly decent job of showing her how good things can be...well, I think it's a lot for her to swallow.
She has talked with me about how good she feels now for living right, so that's good. And, well, she contracted genital herpes from the OM and it's been pretty unrelenting for months now, which has a lot to do with how she's feeling about things.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
