Quote: Your surety about your sexual prowess is probably not well-grounded
I promise you this is not the case. I realize how it sounds. I have talked with my W about this so much that she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. From her lips, she says the sex is good, I do what she wants, she has orgasms (most of the time). We ML 4 times/week, and she's usually the one who usually points out "it's time".
Her issue is a lack of attraction, not a lack of willingness. She doesn't feel sexually attracted to me anymore (though she used to). I promise you, I'm not building myself up in my own mind. I don't mean to imply that I'm a super stud...just that with her own lips my wife tells me everything's good in that area...she just doesn't feel like having sex right now, though she does it anyway.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
