take the initiative, heaven knows that if I had left the birth of our SL to my H I'd be in the SSM board a while ago.
He'd just lay there at the beginning, and even now, he doesn't reach out to hug me and stuff, he does initiate but isn't pawing me and suggesting stuff the way he used to.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
