TL, I feel for you. My H has said basically the exact same thing:
Quote: One of the things that has plagued me/us is my W's confessed lack of attraction and desire for me.
See my thread "As good as it gets" in Piecing. I got some really good feedback from Always 14, Muddle and GH to name a few. It sucks and hurts my feelings more than anything. Then I start second guessing why I am working so hard to be with a man who does not want me. But I am not a quitter and will not give up, I just keep pluggin along in hopes of a brighter future.