Naw.... you can MLC... but yours is going to be a HEALTHY ONE!!!
That is you're going to start playing guitar, working on a hot rod or go white river rafting every weekend!!!
P.s. I have trouble with those stupid movies and songs about affairs. I like the country song where she's destroying his truck and carving her name in the leather seats, but I hate the one about the "honey" calling at night with her "lips like an angel." BARF!!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.