Gwyn,

More =
* H calls me during the day for no reason other than to say he was thinking of me (Like pre-A)
* H gives me a hug and kiss when either of us leaves the house or returns home.
* H shows affection towards me i.e. holding my hand during walks, putting his arm around me while watch TV and this is the big one, we ML at the very least once a week.

I just feel like he stayed in the M for all the wrong reasons; for the sake of our kids (ages 5,9 & 11) and because financially he cannot afford to leave. I want to feel like he stayed because he realized what a wonderful life we have TOGETHER, that deep down he really does love me, and only me, with all his heart. Is that asking too much? Are my expectations too unrealistic?