hey, TL, don't say that , you are a great person, and empty dead person doesn't give to others the way you give to us, the hope you have given me.
Though I see where you are coming from, it took me months to have my H reciprocate affection, not that he innitiates as much as I do, but little by little it has gotten better, it's taken almost 6mths. I pray that in 6 more months your W lifts whatever wall she has inside her so she can decide love & to give w/joy.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.