Thanks. I agree, it IS confusing. Maybe I'm more confused than I ought to be...but here's why:
She tells me she loves me...but that just started last week and she tells me it's more like a cousin or <insert generic family member here> than a husband.
She is WILLING to ML but she says she has no DESIRE to, but believes it is necessary to "get back on the horse" so to speak. Part of acting as if.
She tells me that despite all that wonderful stuff, there is no spark, no passion, she's not attracted to me at all.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
