Your post is so confusing, read it again.

You list all of these wonderful positives and then you say that there is no spark, no passion, no attraction.

I do not see what the problem is?

Maybe you have really high expectations of something that right now she I unable to give you.
Does she even know what it is you want?
Do you?

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.