Just wanted to thow my 2 cents in... This is part of an email I received... Makes sense, in light of what we are talking about.
Most people think that the FEELING of love comes BEFORE we express love - and in the beginning of a relationship, that's what happens. You fall in love and THEN you do acts of love. Your feelings inspire your actions.
But mature love asks more of you. To create a strong LASTING marriage, you first CHOOSE LOVING ACTIONS. Your feelings will follow.
After all, you don't jog two miles or skip dessert because you feel healthy. You feel healthy because you jogged two miles and skipped dessert. So too, when it comes to your marriage, YOUR ACTIONS CREATE YOUR FEELINGS!
M - 35
W - 37
kids- 2 D9 & S7
Married 11 years
BOMB 8/9/06