when My H started warming up to me , even though it was what I was hoping for against all odds ( A MIRACLE really )... I too had all the feelings you are feeling
this can not be real somebody pinch me....

sounds like you had a great day you are just overwhelmed by it all.

I have been reconciled only @ 10 weeks now and it still feels "wierd" occasionally when he does something unexpected like your Wife did and yet I realize it is a blessing and just smile. He does things for me now too that he has never ever done....

take it slow it will take time for it to feel real , how long???????? I wish I knew too.
Maybe some veterans can help you further with this.
I am new to this too and I still sometimes wonder when he says ILY...
and he often asks me too,, " Do you really love me ?" in his little boy voice..

With time and healing when she says this to you it will I bet feel so natural.
All my best to you.
God bless...