I think we (people in this board) tend to disect everything sometimes. Take it as face value!! just like the rest of us here do the 180 and baffle our Ss and pray they believe we are being truthful, why must you rationalize and tell her she can't be doing that?
Be happy darn it, enjoy it! Keep it simple and stop disecting the stich, the next time you don't know what you say, don't say anything or at least smile to her if words fail you, let her start to display her affection.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
