I think I may have been projecting my passion issue onto my H. It bothers me that I get LD when we have a consistent sex life. I believe I need an element of insecurity to get my libido going, that this love and commmitment stuff doesn't do it for me. I want to change this. I am being receptive and open to my H's initiations, and I have been more connected, as has he, but this doesn't give me those passionate feelings I want. But I am thinking this is health and I will be patient and work on it.
