Just reading over my thread and updating...things are very much the same here. H has been initiating several times a week, and my body has learned to respond. I feel LD in between. I think this is learned too. I am just going with the flow. H is still hypersensitive to my moods, and sometimes he just seems needy, but can't ask for attention. He then will start some sort of bad interaction until I figure out that it's his way of getting his needs met ( love, hugs, appreciation, etc.). He seems to have internalized his responsibility for a sex life with me, and it still takes some time for him to get excited enough to ML, but I have gotten more patient. Some days are better than others, but overall its been good. I do wish he's have red hot passion for me, but oh well.