You're not a bad mother. You're a good mother for not stopping her when she wanted to try something new like this. And hat's off to HER for getting her hair cut without worrying about what you or your husband would think. His reaction is all about HIM, not about you. He's taking it out on you, but it's not YOURS. Pink streaks are harmless to HER... your H is having a hard time facing that she is growing up...