If there isn't a medical reason, then one of the following may be the issue (assuming there is NOT an erection problem).
- He masturbated beforehand.
- He needs more friction. In that case, you can finish him off by hand. If you want to be super sexy doing that, you can use your own fluids for what lubrication you need. The sight of that alone will probably do him in :-).
- He is doing some psychoactive meds that interfere with his ejaculation. Neurontin and other similar anti-siezure drugs can do this. So can some off-the-shelf drugs, primarily cold and flu remedies.
- It just happened for unknown reasons. I have had it happen a few times to me. After 20+ minutes, most women begin to get a bit sore, so I normally limit actual intercourse to 20 minutes or less (I can normally orgasm when I decide to). Let him know that it is okay for him to stop before he gets frustrated.
I wouldn't worry about it unless it becomes chronic.
All the best,
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
