H doesn't O both times...... is something wrong? IHJ, I am on the other end of this problem. Not that I have PE or shoot too fast but have never not had an "O" except fore one time just before my back surgery. Everything hurt too much that time.
Will your H tell you what feels better/not as good when doing different things. More importantly, would you ask him?
If I were in his situation, BB asking me what is wrong would not be the way to go. Asking if "A" was better than "B" might work or asking what was more exciting during a time when he did "O".
The thing that concerns me is how does he feel without an "O"? There are his feelings about himself and his feelings about how you feel or what you think of him.
If he is OK for himself, then not much to worry about in the short term but if he feels like he has to "O" for you or has to "O" to look good, then be there to reassure him he is taking care of your needs and you want to do "AS MUCH" as you can for him.
This doesn't mean fixing him. It is more along the lines of moral support and some physical helps he might make himself available to.
I can imagine being in your H's shoes and thinking it still feels good having sex. Having an erection feels good. What I call slipping and sliding in the warm box (vagina) feels good. Touching the female body of someone who I love and have an intimate connection with feels good. Making out feels good.
I better quit.
The other avenue is, what would a urology appointment uncover? I don't know if something is wrong. Does this happen often. Is this something new?
