Quote: You know, there really is something to this enneagram stuff; when my type 4 imagination is interpreted by my H as type 3 admiring validation a nice spark is created.
Well, as I have said in the past, my Type 7 on his Type 4 means that when we do have sex it is usually pretty hot. The problem (besides the fact that he is totally un-f*cking-reliable as a lover) is that I feel like when I try to "spice" things up I am limited to the few "dark" spices a Type 4 might like. I can't try to make the sex more "sweet" or "saucy" or "organic" or "melt in your mouthy" or etc. etc. or it's not to his taste and Type 7 me likes the variety pack.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
