Well, I know that when you get off someone's back and stop bugging them, then you get to see what they do on their own. You get to find out something about them. If you ask someone to go to the movies every Friday night under the assumption that they like movies as much as you do, you don't really know until you STOP asking them to go and find out if they ask YOU. When you insert yourself too much then it's hard to know what the person would be like without you around.
