Quote: Whether you refrain from mothering and rescuing (i.e., controlling your reactions to your own fears) has nothing to do with his maturity and confidence.
Well, Cobra, I am going to take Lil's word on it that in any relationship that I'd have, I'd end up doing the mothering/rescuing thing. It's wise for me to take a step back and balance myself better. I don't have as many relationships as Lil has had ( I met H at 21) but before him I was in a 3 yr relationshp with a very alpha type guy...guess what?...I ended up being his therapist/friend. I'm getting out of my own way and enjoying my sensuality, that's all I can do. Coincidentally H is maturing...or is it coincidence?
