update...I have been keeping a sweet and loving feeling going, which yesterday yielded some tender moments with H ( he covered me with a throw blanket while we were watching tv and gave me a gentle kiss)...later there was more affection but no S-E-X. I was disappointed but then reminded myself that I am behaving this way not just to get results but because it feels like the right thing to do.
Tonite had the feel of another snuggle night, yet I was feeling pretty tingly. So I softly asked H if tonite was an amorous nite, and he said yeah, it has the makings of an amorous nite, and we had some yummy loving. Glad I spoke up (note to self: a soft approach is best).
I know I can get tripped up by my desire for a wilder, more passionate sex life, but I am going to try to stay on the stable plan.
