Feeling a little frustrated this am. I actually have some spontaneous sexual desire, but I know it's really up to my H if he will initiate tonite. This is issue #1...being able to have sex on my timetable, just a bit. I have decided I am going to speak up and tell him I want him tonite...hoe it won't make him feel too pressured. It's nice to have the tingles back, and not just wait for my H to show desire and then feel.