MATTIE!!!! Sounds like you and your H are well on the way to a happier,brighter,more loving and stronger R!!!! I couldn't be happier for you!!!! You just sound upbeat and so much happier when you post now!! Glad things went well when you brought up the anniversary. Sounds like your H is really trying to forget about the OW and is doing a good job. Isn't it amazing how the ones who cheat usually forget things a lot quicker that the person cheated on? Wish I had my H's ability to decide to forget something or someone,just never talk about it or them again and forget about it!! Here I am over a year and a half after the mess and still having crazy thoughts (not nearly as often but they still pop up ocassionally) !! But at least the memories are dimming more all the time!! Continued success to you and to your H!! I will keep the thoughts and prayers coming!! Your Friend, Pat
You just sound upbeat and so much happier when you post now!! Glad things went well when you brought up the anniversary. Sounds like your H is really trying to forget about the OW and is doing a good job. Isn't it amazing how the ones who cheat usually forget things a lot quicker that the person cheated on? Wish I had my H's ability to decide to forget something or someone,just never talk about it or them again and forget about it!! Here I am over a year and a half after the mess and still having crazy thoughts (not nearly as often but they still pop up ocassionally) 
!! But at least the memories are dimming more all the time!!
