Quote: It's normal, then, for husbands to want that kind of sex with their wives? I honestly didn't know that. I look at other couples and they seem so -- I don't know -- connected. I can't imagine some of the other wives I know being their husbands' sex toy.
I made no claim to "normal" behavior its a really difficult to describe sexual
activity as normal. A lot of people have sex that feels unconnected I will say that.
Quote: Do you think he honestly wants me to be with another man or he honestly wants to be with another woman or is it just something that turns him on to think about?
I think he is uncomfortable with his own sexual nature and is using your sexuality to prop his up and turn him on.
Quote: Is this okay in a healthy marriage?
I don't get to vote on your marriage.
It really sound like you simply want to feel more connected during sex.
