Ooops, I forgot to add . . . the only thing I wanted from him was that he be a little more assertive in bed, which he's done -- really well, I might add!
He keeps saying things like, "I can't keep up with you" and "I'm too old for this." It makes me wonder if he's looking at sex as a chore now? I didn't mean for him to kill himself trying to "perform," I just like when he's more in control and more assertive. I'm worried that him trying too hard is going to make him as miserable as him not trying made us. (Did that make sense?)
H-44 M-36 Married 6/7/03 8/17/06 - H not sure he wants to be married any more 8/17/06-present - Just crawling through the rubble that's left of my life 2/8/07 - H admitted affair
