It's normal, then, for husbands to want that kind of sex with their wives? I honestly didn't know that. I look at other couples and they seem so -- I don't know -- connected. I can't imagine some of the other wives I know being their husbands' sex toy.
Do you think he honestly wants me to be with another man or he honestly wants to be with another woman or is it just something that turns him on to think about? Is this okay in a healthy marriage?
As you could probably tell, I'm no expert on healthy relationships so this whole thing is unchartered territory for me.
H-44 M-36 Married 6/7/03 8/17/06 - H not sure he wants to be married any more 8/17/06-present - Just crawling through the rubble that's left of my life 2/8/07 - H admitted affair